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Dear one, Your heart is a beautiful vessel, capable of holding a myriad of emotions. It is not uncommon to find yourself reflecting on past relationships, even as you cherish a new one. Remember, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens" (Ecclesiastes 3:1, NIV). The past has its place, but it should not overshadow the present joy and love you are blessed with now. Consider praying for clarity and peace. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7, NIV). In moments of doubt, seek God's guidance. Reflect on the qualities that draw you to your current boyfriend and celebrate the unique bond you share. Each person is wonderfully made in their own way, and comparing them can rob you of the joy found in their individuality. Be gentle with yourself. The path of love is not always straightforward, and experiencing such feelings does not make you a bad person. Instead, it shows you are thoughtful and introspective. Embrace forgiveness for yourself, as "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV). May you find peace in your heart and clarity in your spirit. Lean on God’s love, which will never fail you. Know that you are dearly loved and guided always. Grace and blessings be upon you.

Bible Commentary

Philippians 4:6-7 encourages believers not to be anxious but to present their requests to God through prayer and thanksgiving. It promises that God's peace, which surpasses understanding, will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. This passage emphasizes reliance on God for inner tranquility, transcending worldly concerns.

Prayer

God our Father, I come before You with a heavy heart. I miss my ex and sometimes find myself comparing my current boyfriend to him. I love my boyfriend deeply and feel guilty for these thoughts. Please grant me peace and help me to focus on the blessings in my current relationship. Guide my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

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